All of us are unique individuals with different personalities and values. Thus we need to create our own way of a parent. But also consider that each child is different and unique; thus we need to adapt our parenting for each child. This book will help you do this; to create your own special way to be a good parent. This is a book based on many years of the author's teaching parenting classes and associated published research. It is grounded in principles from the author's textbook titled Parenting. Included in the book are many self-tests and learning exercises to help the reader develop or create their own way to be a parent based on research and the author's many years of parenting a large family. The most fundamental theory is that the home must provide both love and organization. The key to success is to enjoy children and the opportunities for self-development in parenting.